Thanks to a little bit of luck, a lot of hard work and the grace of God, Andrew and I will be celebrating our tenth wedding anniversary this September. Our original wedding was a small, simple affair on top of Cathedral Ledge in North Conway, NH. There were ten people in attendance, including the two of us and the Justice of the Peace that officiated our little ceremony. I wore my best friends wedding dress as my something borrowed. We followed with dinner at a local restaurant in a room that I'm pretty sure doubled as a greenhouse and had dessert at the chocolate outlet next door.
We have long planned on hosting this anniversary part, though the form has changed quite a bite. At one point we thought about having an elaborate ceremony and reception (day care and private kindergarten tuition nixed that idea), we thought about renting a beach house in Maine or the Outer Banks, we thought about dragging all of our family and friends to the top of our mountain and then back to the same (HOT) restaurant for a proper reception. I am currently set on having a ceremony and reception right here in our backyard. The "yard" is a tad small so let's call it an "intimate" party. (Is it wrong of me to count on half of the invited guests to regretfully decline?)
In some ways, I am more excited about this than our original wedding. There is none of that "Oh my God, the REST of my life. Really?!?" nervousness that caused me to run out of a brownie cooking lab at URI, puking all over the front steps of Woodward Hall. (I did get a free pass on that lab. That was a bonus.) There is comfort in really knowing that I made the right decision. Hopefully, no one in my family with be placing their bets on how long it will last this time around. I think that ten years of marriage is something to celebrate, it is much more of an accomplishment to make it to this point. Pretty much anyone can make it through day one of a marriage. Also, there is less expectation of an anniversary party. It can be anything Andrew and I want. A wedding comes with so many expectations, EVERYONE has an opinion which they usually have no problem voicing, whether you want to hear it or not. This time around there is less demands as to what we are "supposed" to be doing, or maybe I am better at shrugging off dissenters, either way there is far less stress planning our anniversary party compared to our wedding.
So anyway, the party. I'm totally in love with my ideas so far. I have been collecting #10 cans from work (my food service management professor would be so proud of me for still knowing what they are called). I plan on spray painting them a flat chocolate brown inside and out and then wrapping the outside in chocolate brown ribbon. These are going to be on the stairs of our porch, in the planter boxes in the back yard that nothing grows in, and basically all around the yard with votive candles tucked in between. Originally I had planned on a theme of wine red with brown accents but I seem to have flip flopped that somewhere along the way. I am going to fill the cans with white roses (found online for $190 for 25 dozen!!!). I also found a dress (on sale for $108!!!) but unfortunately the aforementioned daycare and private kindergarten tuition have me simply bookmarking the page and hoping it goes on such super sale again. I'm waiting on a quote from RI Rental for a few tables, chairs, tablecloths, and a dance floor. We're going to skip the DJ (no room really) and put a teenager in charge of the iPod playlists we'll make. My BFF Sarah is going to make the cake, I'm thinking chocolate with chocolate frosting, three tiers, with white chocolate roses on the tiers and fresh white roses on top. A high school classmate has agreed to be our photographer. Centerpieces will be glass bowls filled with apples.(Family apple picking trip the weekend before!) Oh, and the place cards, mini pumpkins. SO MUCH FUN!!